Thursday, 3 October 2013

Life hurts some times

Hi All

today this is not about miniatures, but I felt I could share this with my blog friends.

My mum has been poorly for some time and she has been back and forth to her doctor, no one could find out what was wrong. 2 weeks ago she said she has lumps in her neck, these have turned out to be cancer, we are now awaiting for her to have scans to see where the cancer is and to see if it is treatable.
 We are just recovering from finding out my sister in law has cancer and now this, I am devastated  my mum is not only my mum she is my best friend, she is the one I turn to first, she shares my ups and downs, she plays such a big part in my life, I am trying to be strong for her and my dad, but its hard.

In my life I have had much heart ache, I lost my daughter 2 weeks before her 4th birthday, my dad dies suddenly at 56, and now this, I am a strong person and have coped with the heart aches, but today I do not feel like coping and I want some one to be strong for me.


10 comments:

Liduina said...

Oh poor Debby, this is such devastating news for you. And you allready had more than your share of pain in life.....be strong and spend as much time as possible with your mother and sister in law. Miniatures can wait patiently.....

Drora's minimundo said...

Dear Debbie,
These are bad news and you must really be strong to bear them. My heart is with you and your mum. I'll keep praying that your mum's cancer is curable.
A warm embrace, Drora

Giac said...

Hello Debbie,
I cannot imagine how much this new blow must hurt. Be strong and have faith, your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Big hug,
Giac

My Journey To Celebrating Life said...

My Dear Debbie, I will be strong for you today and for many days. I know the feeling of wanting someone else to be strong for you. Just know that your friends are here holding you up until this storm in your life passes. We love you. Cancer is not a death threat like it used to be. Yesterday I had lunch with a friend who has survived cancer 37 years and when I got cancer I thought I was going to die, but now 13 years later I am here to support you, your Mum and sister-in-law in prayer. Although we are miles apart, my heart is with you. Lean on me. I will lean on God.

Elizabeth S said...

Hi Debbie! What rotten news and such a major blow! I shall be praying for you and your mom,Debbie. God hears and He cares.

elizabeth

Maria Ireland said...

Debbie I am so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take care.
Hugs Maria

Patrick Duclou said...

Hi Debbie,
I hope your mum and your sister-in-law will recover . You have my thoughts and my prayers,
Patrick

NarinaNäpertää said...

My prayers are for you and your family..

Hugs, Irina

Melli´s Hobby said...

Hello Debby,
these are bad news and you must really be strong to bear them.
My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.
Greetings and a big hug
Melanie

Steinworks said...

oh Debbie Im so sorry to hear about your Mum, I will pray for her and you too

Hugs to you
Marisa